Sometime It’s a difficult to handle old aggressive people because as age growing there is many hormonal changes in a human. Today I will tell you
Handle Old Aggressive People
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How To Handle Old People |
Sometime It’s a difficult to handle old aggressive people because
as age growing there is many hormonal changes in a human. Today I will tell you
a story that how you can handle old people with their extra anger and sure
temper.
I went out for breakfast. It was a bright day in the foggy
weather. Usually Halwa Puri is his last choice but I stopped when I saw the
chairs lying in the open field near this hotelier. I thought that if I could
sit in such hot sun and drink any oil, I would drink it.
A boy came running from a distance and said, 'Uncle, let's
go.' If I look at the shape, he can be my uncle of the same age, once he looked
full, like Abe, your uncle, your father, uncle, where am I from? But anyway.
Uncle John, with a white beard, ordered the only breakfast available, ordered
tea, and began to bask in the sun. Had breakfast, drank tea, at least by then
he had called me Uncle John six or seven times. Now I was enjoying this Uncle
Janet. I ordered packing for the house which cost me five uncles, then two
uncles died in reversing the car, on the way I found one uncle even at the
slightest tip. Now I intend to go to Uncle John's breakfast again someday, but
on which day will God bless that sun?
As every senior columnist finds a lesson for others in any
such incident, so did your brother. Just as I am now an established uncle but I
feel very young, our elders also consider themselves as young all the time. One
tail normal. Think about it, especially among readers who are around thirty or
forty, how they are feeling at this age? Any weaknesses, any complaints? No
right.
Well, at the age of twelve, what did you think of the
thirty? Uncle, aunt, middle-aged man or woman, use the most careful word, then
this age was maturity in your mind at that time. Now they are sitting by
themselves, has any maturity come?
So the same feeling that you have at the age of thirty or
forty, will happen in sixty or seventy. The mind never gives up, those around
it beat. Just in the eighteenth century, the average human age was between
thirty and forty years. That is, two hundred years ago, you are either dead or
about to die. Can you consider yourself a 'senior citizen'? Or think, a child
comes to you and says Uncle John, you are not overweight anymore, you are not
old, what would you say to him in your heart and what would you say in your
mouth?
This is exactly how our fathers, uncles and aunts feel when
we make them feel great. Man lies down on the day he gives up, we are under
pressure to lay him down. Your father is as young as you are, the difference is
that he has leased it to you and you are making him look old again and again.
If your mother can walk, don't ask her to sit down, she will
take care of the whole kitchen even today, she will take care of it better than
you, the problem is that you have to take your extra care and go to the right
side! And if you go shopping for God's sake, don't bring dead gray or peanut
colored clothes for them, they look dull but they don't tell you. They still
like purple, maroon, bottle green, the problem is the mattress on which you
have forced them to sit.
If you believe them, you also have to ask them about the
make-up that your twelve or thirteen-year-old daughter does, and they want to
try all these things lightly, but they are afraid that you will surprise them.
You have to put your finger on it and it will not be tolerated by them.
Recently, the father of a kind friend fell ill. Two or three
days later, when he called to ask about the situation, he said that Abu Ji did
not listen. It is cold, but when we go to the mosque in the morning, we perform
ablution with cold water. It's getting cold.
Praise be to Allaah. Their fathers are better now, but this
is the problem of all fathers and mothers. To understand the matter, take a
simple example. If your father or mother tells you to get up at five o'clock in
the morning and take a shower, sit down clean, then maybe at the age of twenty
you will show some Khurmasti, when you are forty or forty-five you will be
killed. You will take a shower in the morning for their happiness and sit down
in the morning to have a baby.
So the same thing happens to our parents up to the age of
sixty or seventy. One is the habit of the whole age, then the feeling of obedience.
Be patient, just let them do what they are doing with safety precautions, they
know better. So some people feel anxiety to deal old people but handle these
old people or parents is not difficult job.
Some people like Papa, Dad or Amy do the opposite. They have
grown old. They just want to be in the restroom 24 hours a day and are slowly
getting sick. This happens when the children are overly happy or too many. The
children reassure them that Baba ji, you have reduced the flow, do not live in
peace and do Allah.
If your parents have gone through this stage, you can bring
them back. Bismillah from a smartphone or a tablet. Show them a live video of
their favorite places at the beginning. Like all the religious places in the
world live 24 hours a day on live telecast. Then show them travel logs on
YouTube if they were interested in travel, then there are food blogs, talk
shows, there is a world. Then add some bright colors to their clothes. Focus on
a little haircut and skin care. If you have time, take a walk with you, otherwise
you can afford half a trade mill.
This is the whole story how we can handle old people and make them happy to fallowing above mentioned
steps.
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